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Thursday, July 14, 2011

What Do I Need to Have for Fighting Visitation?

First off, fighting visitation can be a long war so be prepared. However, like the old proverb states: You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink. Your custody order can state whatever it wants, it is your decision whether you plan to follow it or not. So what do you need to fight visitation.
1. You need Nerves of Steel
This is going to be a lengthy process. Your going to piss off both of your parents. Everyone will be mad at you and you may get in trouble. Take a deep breath.  Accept that this will happen. Sometimes you just have to be an asshole. Embrace your role.
2. You Need a Safe Place to Keep Things
Your best friend will be very useful in this regard. See if you can keep private stuff at their house. If your school keeps track of whose lockers belong to which students, see if you can convince them to switch lockers with you. I say this because your parents can request to search your locker at anytime, and they can confiscate any of your things. But if no one knows which locker is truly yours, then you can use it to store important things. This is especially useful if you get picked up from school by your non-custodial parent.
3. You need Some Money.
No you should not be carrying cash with you. But if you can convince your family members to support you, see if they will give you a prepaid VISA card for around 200 bucks. They can pick it up at the grocery store, so it can never be traced back to them. A card is very easy to under the lining of your shoe when your stuck at visitation, and most Nazi non-custodial parents ( NCP) won't look there.
4. You need an Untraceable cell phone
Now you need to keep your old phone, and your NCP should see you use your regular phone. If you don't, they will get suspicious. This phone needs to be used in case of Emergency. Some NCP's will take your regular cell phone upon arrival to their house, but they won't find your hidden one. But you should never be without access to a phone, especially with a parent who drinks or is violent.
If you have the things here, you have already gotten yourself prepared to fight for yourself. Don't be a victim to the court system, or to your parents. You can be miserable and wait to cut off your parent until your 18 or you can do it now. Don't except the bullshit they are feeding you, get prepared to fight back.

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